Self-discovery and leadership

Published: The Hindu
On: August 22, 2012
At: Hyderabad, Chennai

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Being an effective leader is challenging and honest self-reflection is the key to creating a successful organisation. What is self-reflection? It means that you regularly examine the decisions that worked and those that didn’t in your organisation. It means your day-to-day experiences are drawn on as learning opportunities, and options are explored or the choices identified. You look at your weaknesses, strengths, and your interactions within your team with a critical eye. This results in a higher level of self-awareness and a realistic view of oneself. It can be agonising, yet essential to look in the mirror and face the demon.
Then turn your answers into positive, firm statements that will give you tangible goals you can work on immediately.
As you develop new leadership skills and insights, it leads to inspired and empowered employees, projects instilled with organisation’s mission, vision and values, and a big picture vision that is linked to positive results.
Today, the focus is on your ability to react to crises and make quick decisions. However, it is also important that you make it a habit to step aside and look back. Harry Kraemer, in his book From Values to Action says, “The journey to becoming a values-based leader starts with self-reflection.” He further asks, “If you are not self-reflective, how can you know yourself? If you do not know yourself, how can you lead yourself? If you cannot lead yourself, how can you lead others?”
So, how does one get self-reflective? Pause for a while and answer a few hard questions – be honest!

• Where did I fail as a leader in the past? What could I do that would have made it better?
• Where did I succeed? What qualities or values did I show of which I am proud?
• Am I a cooperative leader? When did I last provide support and encouragement to my team or organisation?
• Do I enjoy being a leader? If not, what can I do to increase my joy of being a leader?
• Are there some aspects I am ignoring for fear of change or lack of knowledge?
• What can I do to become a proactive leader?
• What are my goals for my team or organisation?
• What are the new skills I have learnt in the last one year?

Write down the answers and analyse them. Develop a greater awareness of your strengths and explore challenging areas. Develop sound, positive leadership thoughts and skills.

Another way of looking back is careful observation. Analyse your own verbal and non-verbal communication. Note your tone and style used during meetings. How do you react when you face change, controversy, or crisis? Decipher the meaning of what you see and what you hear.
Being open to suggestions also helps build insights. Suspend your assumptions and look at things from a different perspective. Be prepared to listen with minimum defensiveness. Be open and curious even with people who disagree with you. Project yourself as a real person. Share your feelings that are believable. Otherwise, you may send mixed signals and come across as a manipulative leader.
It is important to respond in a flexible way. Responding with empathy and taking active interest in others is vital to managing relationships.
Meditation, reading and maintaining a journal are some other ways that can help you in your journey of self-discovery and leadership.
Finally, be prepared to do a reality check consistently and support your inner growth if you truly want to commit to becoming an effective leader. It requires personal discipline, hard work and continuous practice. Good luck!